What Kind of Therapy Helps with OCD?
Answers from an OCD Therapist in Del Mar, California
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What treatment do you use for OCD and intrusive thoughts?
Kelli uses somatic EMDR and ERP combined.
Somatic EMDR is a body-aware form of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, together with trauma-informed therapy. Instead of arguing with the intrusive thought, the work targets the anxiety and the older experiences that keep the thought feeling dangerous.
Here is context worth knowing as you choose. Exposure and response prevention (ERP), a structured form of CBT, is widely considered the first-line psychotherapy for OCD, according to the Psychiatry & Psychotherapy Podcast's OCD treatment guide. In ERP you gradually face what triggers the obsession and practice not performing the compulsion, so your brain learns that anxiety rises and falls on its own.
Many people with OCD also carry trauma and a nervous system that stays on high alert. Somatic EMDR addresses that layer directly. During your intake, Kelli will talk with you about which approach fits your situation, and she will be honest if another method or a referral would serve you better.
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Who treats OCD in the Del Mar and Escondido area?
EMDR with Kelli treats adults with OCD and phobias in the Del Mar and Escondido area. Kelli is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT, CA #158231) who focuses on trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, OCD, anxiety, and the nervous system dysregulation that often sits underneath them.
You can reach the practice at 949-630-8776 or through the contact page at emdrwithkelli.com/contact-kelli.
The reason to start here is the focus. This is not a general talk-therapy practice that also sees OCD on the side. The work centers on how fear lives in your body and how your nervous system learned to protect you, which is the layer that intrusive thoughts and compulsions tend to grip.
If you want to compare, that focus is the thing to check with any provider you consider. Ask what method they use for OCD, whether they treat trauma alongside it, and how they measure whether you are getting relief.
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What actually happens in the sessions?
The work moves in stages, and the early ones are about safety, not exposure. Here is what to expect.
First, history and mapping. You describe the intrusive thoughts, the rituals, what sets them off, and what your life looked like before OCD took up so much space.
Second, building resources. Before any deep processing, Kelli helps you build ways to steady your nervous system, so you have somewhere to land when anxiety spikes.
Third, processing. Using bilateral stimulation, such as guided eye movements, along with attention to what you feel in your body, you work through the material that keeps the fear charged.
Fourth, integration. You notice what has shifted, and you practice new responses to old triggers in daily life.
OCD Specialists in Del Mar and Escondido: EMDR Treatment
Kelli has truly been a game changer for my mental health. She has such a unique and compassionate approach to healing through EMDR. I’ve lived with CPTSD/OCD for a long time and have tried many forms of therapy, but working with Kelli has been unlike anything I’ve experienced before. The skill, care, and presence she brings to her work have made a profound impact on my healing journey and genuinely changed my life.
Recent Client, 2026I can’t say enough about how grateful I am for Kelli. After experiencing a panic attack on a five-hour flight, I was feeling anxious and worried that my world would start to shrink because of it. Through somatic EMDR sessions with Kelli, we were able to get to the root of what I was experiencing in a way that felt safe and truly effective.
I was initially apprehensive about EMDR and what it was, but after just one session, I felt a shift. I even decided to get the tapping devices myself and have continued using them because of how helpful they’ve been.
Kelli gave me new perspective, helped calm both my mind and body, and truly changed the way I approach my anxiety. Because of her, I was able to fly again and go on vacation with my family something that once felt overwhelming.
She didn’t just help me cope she helped me move forward. I’m incredibly thankful for her care, guidance, and the lasting impact she’s had on my life.
Forever grateful!!
Recent Client, 2026“I received the offical diagnosis of OCD and it has changed my life, finally therapy started working and I am getting my life back.”
Recent Client, 2025OCD Therapy and Current Research
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is a complex adaptive way your body learned to protect itself. It is highly inheritable, often running in families. OCD can make you feel trapped in a cycle of unwanted thoughts, doubts, fears, and compulsive behaviors, even when part of you knows the fear is irrational.
You may find yourself checking, researching, seeking reassurance, avoiding certain situations, or mentally replaying things over and over, trying to finally feel certain or safe.
The problem isn't that you're thinking too much. It's that your nervous system has learned to treat uncertainty as danger.
One indicator in my experience in trauma work is that people who come to see me often talk about talk therapy as not effective. This paired with interruptions in EMDR will often prompt me to assess for late diagnosed OCD.
Think you would have known if you had OCD?
Many adults don't.
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Physical/somatic symptoms of OCD are often overlooked because OCD gets framed as a "thoughts" disorder, but the body carries a lot of it:
Muscle tension — especially jaw, neck, and shoulders, often from sustained anxiety or bracing against intrusive thoughts
Racing heart or chest tightness during a triggering thought or when resisting a compulsion
Gastrointestinal distress — nausea, stomach knots, or a "sick" feeling tied to contamination fears or moral/harm-related intrusions
Physical exhaustion from the sheer energy compulsions and mental rituals consume, even when the compulsion itself isn't physically strenuous
A specific "not just right" bodily sensation — a felt sense of incompleteness or wrongness in the body that drives repeating an action until it "feels right" (common in symmetry/ordering OCD)
Skin irritation or physical damage from repetitive behaviors like handwashing, skin picking, or checking motions
Hypervigilance in the body — a keyed-up, on-alert physical state similar to what shows up in anxiety disorders, since OCD keeps the nervous system scanning for threat
That "not just right" felt sense is a particularly distinct one clinically — it's less an emotion and more a raw bodily signal that something needs to be redone, and it's a big part of why OCD can feel so hard to reason your way out of.
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An LMFT or any Therapist can give the official diagnosis through a series of screenings. Those interested in using medication alongside the psychotherapy would go see a Nurse Practitioner or a Psychiatrist for their medication management. Treatment is often both and, not only psychotherapy.
OCD typically begins earlier in life: a recent international analysis, World Mental Health Survey in 2025, found that more than 80% of OCD cases begin by early adulthood.
Late-onset OCD does occur; in one clinical study, 11.3% of people with OCD reported onset at age 30 or later, with an average onset age of about 39 among that subgroup.
A newer analysis, by IOCDF.org in 2025 found of 10.4 million patient records found that only 0.51% had a formal OCD diagnosis, and the researchers estimated that up to 75% of actual OCD cases may not be detected or diagnosed by clinicians in that dataset.
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Treatment That Actually Works for OCD
The most well-researched treatment for OCD is called ERP, which stands for Exposure and Response Prevention. In simple terms, it means gently facing the thoughts or situations that scare you, without doing the ritual or behavior you'd normally use to feel better. Over time, your brain learns the fear passes on its own, even without the ritual. Research consistently shows this approach helps the majority of people who try it, though it does take real practice and isn't always a quick fix.
Somatic therapy, meaning body-based approaches that focus on calming your nervous system, isn't a stand-alone fix for OCD on its own. But it's a great support tool alongside ERP, especially if facing your fears feels too overwhelming to do right away. Think of it as building your capacity to stay calm enough to do the harder work.
EMDR, a therapy that uses eye movements to help your brain reprocess distressing memories, has also shown real promise for OCD, especially when past experiences seem tied into your symptoms. Some research shows it works about as well as ERP, and combining the two may work even better than either alone.
The bottom line: most people see real improvement with the right treatment, though it usually takes patience rather than a quick turnaround. A typical course of treatment runs somewhere between 3 and 5 months of consistent sessions, sometimes faster with an intensive format.
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EMDR intensives are not appropriate for every person or every stage of treatment. During consultation and intake, we assess safety, stability, dissociation, current symptoms, medical and psychiatric needs, and whether a longer session format is clinically appropriate. We may recommend stabilization, referral, or coordination with another provider before beginning EMDR.
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Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP)
ERP is the frontline, most well-established treatment for OCD, and it works by having you face triggering thoughts or situations while resisting the urge to perform the compulsion, gradually teaching your nervous system that the feared outcome doesn't happen and the anxiety subsides on its own. A meta-analysis of 39 randomized controlled trials involving nearly 1,800 participants found ERP has a clear, measurable effect on OCD symptoms, with especially strong results compared to placebo conditions. Outcome studies show success rates as high as 69% in intensive settings, with meaningful symptom reduction consistently reported across outpatient programs as well. ScienceDirectCambridge Core
Somatic Therapy
Somatic approaches aren't a standalone, first-line OCD treatment the way ERP is, and I want to be direct about that. The strongest evidence for body-based approaches currently exists for anxiety disorders and functional somatic symptoms broadly, not for OCD specifically. Where somatic work earns its place in OCD treatment is as a support underneath ERP, helping regulate the nervous system so a client can tolerate exposure work without becoming so activated that they disengage or drop out. In my practice, this looks like building nervous system capacity alongside exposure work, not replacing it. GoodTherapy
ERP-Informed EMDR
For clients who haven't fully responded to traditional ERP, or who carry a clear trauma component underneath their OCD, EMDR is a promising adjunct or alternative. Two randomized controlled trials have tested EMDR against citalopram and against ERP directly. One found EMDR outperformed medication, and the other found EMDR and ERP equally effective at reducing symptoms, with gains holding at 6-month follow-up. A separate randomized trial combining ERP with EMDR for OCD tied to stressful life events found the combination outperformed ERP alone. A review of nine EMDR-for-OCD studies found every one showed symptom reduction from baseline, suggesting EMDR is a credible option, though the overall evidence base is still described as preliminary compared to decades of ERP research. EMDR International Association + 2
With OCD, The problem isn't that you're thinking too much. It's that your nervous system has learned to treat uncertainty as danger.
-Kelli Redfield, LMFT
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EMDR with Kelli is a private-pay practice. Fees are $300/hr or $2000 for 6 hour session.
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EMDR with Kelli serves people with OCD and phobias in Del Mar, Escondido, and the surrounding North County San Diego communities. Telehealth sessions are available to adults across California, which matters for OCD work when leaving the house or driving to an office is one of the things anxiety makes hard. Kelli holds an active California LMFT license, #158231.
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Call 949-630-8776 or use the contact form at emdrwithkelli.com/contact-kelli to request an appointment. Kelli typically responds within 24 hours. In that first contact, share a little about what you are struggling with and whether you are interested in weekly sessions or an intensive, and she will help you figure out the next step.
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EMDR with Kelli is a private-pay practice and accepts cash, card, check, Zelle, and Venmo, with payment plans available. For out-of-network reimbursement, or Superbills to your insurance with PPO plans only. Ask about this when you book so you know what to expect before your first session.
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Kelli typically responds to booking requests within 24 hours. Reach out by phone at 949-630-8776 or through the contact page, tell her briefly what you are dealing with, and she will let you know the earliest available times for weekly sessions or an intensive.
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No. ERP, exposure and response prevention, is a structured CBT method widely considered first-line for OCD, where you gradually face triggers without performing the ritual.
ERP has early research as an effective companion model to EDMR. Somatic protocols are proven to help with phobias and other OCD thoughts. - IJ Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences, 2020.
Kelli's practice uses somatic EMDR and trauma-informed therapy, which work with the anxiety, body-based fear, and past experiences that keep intrusive thoughts feeling dangerous. During intake she will discuss which fits your situation, including a referral if that would serve you better.
About
Since 2020, for 6 years, I have been helping women and individuals with a trauma informed lens; as a Somatic EMDR therapist specialising in CPTSD, trauma recovery, OCD, nervous system regulation, difficult relationships, burnout, and attachment wounds in San Diego California.
MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University in 2023.
Associate Therapist 2023-2025
Relational Life Therapy - Level 1 - 2023
Somatic Integration in Trauma Therapy - 2024
EMDR Basic Training - 2025
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - Sept 2025
EMDR Certification Supervision 2026
ERP in EMDR OCD/Phobias training - 2026
Clinical Hormone in Mental Health Training - 2026
I have extensive experience with EMDR in sessions and continuing education in ERP in EMDR, Perimenopause and Menopause transitions, co-regulating somatic touch, and somatic integration.
I can be found in the EMDRIA directory and on Psychology Today and Instagram.
Kelli Redfield, LMFT
California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #158231
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