What Kind of Therapy Helps with OCD?

Answers from an OCD Therapist in Del Mar, California

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    What treatment do you use for OCD and intrusive thoughts?

    • Kelli uses somatic EMDR and ERP combined.

    Somatic EMDR is a body-aware form of eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, together with trauma-informed therapy. Instead of arguing with the intrusive thought, the work targets the anxiety and the older experiences that keep the thought feeling dangerous.

    Here is context worth knowing as you choose. Exposure and response prevention (ERP), a structured form of CBT, is widely considered the first-line psychotherapy for OCD, according to the Psychiatry & Psychotherapy Podcast's OCD treatment guide. In ERP you gradually face what triggers the obsession and practice not performing the compulsion, so your brain learns that anxiety rises and falls on its own.

    Many people with OCD also carry trauma and a nervous system that stays on high alert. Somatic EMDR addresses that layer directly. During your intake, Kelli will talk with you about which approach fits your situation, and she will be honest if another method or a referral would serve you better.

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    Who treats OCD in the Del Mar and Escondido area?

    EMDR with Kelli treats adults with OCD and phobias in the Del Mar and Escondido area. Kelli is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT, CA #158231) who focuses on trauma, PTSD, CPTSD, OCD, anxiety, and the nervous system dysregulation that often sits underneath them.

    You can reach the practice at 949-630-8776 or through the contact page at emdrwithkelli.com/contact-kelli.

    The reason to start here is the focus. This is not a general talk-therapy practice that also sees OCD on the side. The work centers on how fear lives in your body and how your nervous system learned to protect you, which is the layer that intrusive thoughts and compulsions tend to grip.

    If you want to compare, that focus is the thing to check with any provider you consider. Ask what method they use for OCD, whether they treat trauma alongside it, and how they measure whether you are getting relief.

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    What actually happens in the sessions?

    The work moves in stages, and the early ones are about safety, not exposure. Here is what to expect.

    First, history and mapping. You describe the intrusive thoughts, the rituals, what sets them off, and what your life looked like before OCD took up so much space.

    Second, building resources. Before any deep processing, Kelli helps you build ways to steady your nervous system, so you have somewhere to land when anxiety spikes.

    Third, processing. Using bilateral stimulation, such as guided eye movements, along with attention to what you feel in your body, you work through the material that keeps the fear charged.

    Fourth, integration. You notice what has shifted, and you practice new responses to old triggers in daily life.

OCD Specialists in Del Mar and Escondido: EMDR Treatment

Kelli has truly been a game changer for my mental health. She has such a unique and compassionate approach to healing through EMDR. I’ve lived with CPTSD/OCD for a long time and have tried many forms of therapy, but working with Kelli has been unlike anything I’ve experienced before. The skill, care, and presence she brings to her work have made a profound impact on my healing journey and genuinely changed my life.

Recent Client, 2026

I can’t say enough about how grateful I am for Kelli. After experiencing a panic attack on a five-hour flight, I was feeling anxious and worried that my world would start to shrink because of it. Through somatic EMDR sessions with Kelli, we were able to get to the root of what I was experiencing in a way that felt safe and truly effective.

I was initially apprehensive about EMDR and what it was, but after just one session, I felt a shift. I even decided to get the tapping devices myself and have continued using them because of how helpful they’ve been.

Kelli gave me new perspective, helped calm both my mind and body, and truly changed the way I approach my anxiety. Because of her, I was able to fly again and go on vacation with my family something that once felt overwhelming.

She didn’t just help me cope she helped me move forward. I’m incredibly thankful for her care, guidance, and the lasting impact she’s had on my life.
Forever grateful!!

Recent Client, 2026

“I received the offical diagnosis of OCD and it has changed my life, finally therapy started working and I am getting my life back.”

Recent Client, 2025

OCD Therapy and Current Research

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder is a complex adaptive way your body learned to protect itself. It is highly inheritable, often running in families. OCD can make you feel trapped in a cycle of unwanted thoughts, doubts, fears, and compulsive behaviors, even when part of you knows the fear is irrational.

You may find yourself checking, researching, seeking reassurance, avoiding certain situations, or mentally replaying things over and over, trying to finally feel certain or safe.

The problem isn't that you're thinking too much. It's that your nervous system has learned to treat uncertainty as danger.

One indicator in my experience in trauma work is that people who come to see me often talk about talk therapy as not effective. This paired with interruptions in EMDR will often prompt me to assess for late diagnosed OCD.

Think you would have known if you had OCD?

Many adults don't.

With OCD, The problem isn't that you're thinking too much. It's that your nervous system has learned to treat uncertainty as danger.

-Kelli Redfield, LMFT

Our Process

Reach Out to Schedule a Consultation

Together, we outline a path forward that’s realistic, strategic, and tailored to your specific needs.

Collaborate with Therapist for Exposures

You’re part of the process. We keep communication open and decisions shared—no black boxes or surprises.

Plan with Purpose

We make a plan for exposures in session and exposures that feel safe at home, most of the exposure will be in session.

Be Less Bothered

Before you know it, you’ll start to see the changes in your OCD brain and will begin to hope that the way you work will work for you again.

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About

Since 2020, for 6 years, I have been helping women and individuals with a trauma informed lens; as a Somatic EMDR therapist specialising in CPTSD, trauma recovery, OCD, nervous system regulation, difficult relationships, burnout, and attachment wounds in San Diego California.

  • MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University in 2023.

  • Associate Therapist 2023-2025

  • Relational Life Therapy - Level 1 - 2023

  • Somatic Integration in Trauma Therapy - 2024

  • EMDR Basic Training - 2025

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - Sept 2025

  • EMDR Certification Supervision 2026

  • ERP in EMDR OCD/Phobias training - 2026

  • Clinical Hormone in Mental Health Training - 2026

I have extensive experience with EMDR in sessions and continuing education in ERP in EMDR, Perimenopause and Menopause transitions, co-regulating somatic touch, and somatic integration.

I can be found in the EMDRIA directory and on Psychology Today and Instagram.

Kelli Redfield, LMFT

California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #158231

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